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His loss

December 14, 2007

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I lost one who never loved me & he lost the one who really loved and cared for him…

Painting: “Smoke Break” by Carrie Graber

“I’m hiding from you and your soul of ice
…I thought you were someone to rely on
…but you tore me apart”
~Wham~

Related Links: Thank you, Pain,  Unbreak My HeartSadness needs its TimeGlue-lessEven if it takes a LifetimeFantasy,  When Feelings Go Astray,  I Love You Like I’ve Never Loved Anyone Else BeforeYou don’t.. anymore & GoodbyeSomewhere

What do PEOPLE dream of?

December 13, 2007

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What do YOU dream of?

15 Pieces of Advice for Women

December 11, 2007

1. Don’t imagine you can change a man – unless he’s in nappies.

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2. What do you do if your boyfriend walks out? You shut the door.

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3. If they put a man on the moon – they should be able to put them all up there.

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4. Never let your man’s mind wander – it’s too little to be out alone.

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5. Go for the younger man. You might as well, they never mature anyway.

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6. Men are all the same – they just have different faces, so that you can tell them apart.

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7. Definition of a bachelor: a man who has missed the opportunity to make some woman miserable.

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8. Women don’t make fools of men – most of them are the do-it-yourself types.

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9. Best way to get a man to do something is to suggest he is too old for it.

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10. Love is blind, but marriage is a real eye-opener.

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11. If you want a committed man, look in a mental hospital.

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12. The children of Israel wandered around the desert for 40 years. Even in Biblical times, men wouldn’t ask for directions.

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13. If he asks what sort of books you’re interested in, tell him cheque books.

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14. Remember a sense of humour does not mean that you tell him jokes, it means that you laugh at his.

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15. Sadly, all men are created equal!

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Men, no ‘hard feelings’, ok?  Love you all. :P

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Source:  An old forwarded email.

When You Believe

December 10, 2007

Sometimes life’s TREASURES are invisible to the eye, yet MIRACLES are unfolding everywhere. We must TRUST that our HEARTS are always LEADING us where we most need to go.

A Special Christmas Card

December 7, 2007

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This Special Christmas Card arrived in my email box two nights ago. It is not the first Christmas card I received in 2007 but it is the very first Christmas card from a blogger friend. Although I am an old-fashioned girl who loves to receive my letters & cards in the old-fashioned way, i.e., via post, this meaningful card from a wonderful friend is very much appreciated from the bottom of my heart.

THANK YOU, Zai for your “big bear hug & muaaackkk”. My card is slowly making its way to you via the snail mail. ;)

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Do you like receiving Christmas cards in the old-fashioned & time-consuming way?

Related Read: Can E-mail replace Letters?

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Christmas is forever, not for just one day,
for loving, sharing, giving, are not to put away
like bells and lights and tinsel, in some box upon a shelf.
The good you do for others is good you do yourself…
~Norman Wesley Brooks, “Let Every Day Be Christmas,” 1976~

Homer, Kublai & Dan

December 6, 2007

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I’ll never forget Dan’s impersonation of Homer Simpson.

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I’ll never forget how much he looked like Kublai Khan in one of his photos.

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Dan has been & will always be a wonderful & caring friend.

Happy 30th Birthday, Dan!!!

May you be blessed with happiness & good health always!

how they see me

December 5, 2007

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I’ve learned that how some people treat me is more a reflection of how they see themselves than how they see me.

Touching the Wounds

December 3, 2007

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A silent reader shared this with me via email.

“When I was a child we had a Christmas tradition. We had a little plaster statue of the baby Jesus that we placed under our Christmas tree each year. We loved our little Jesus doll and took good care of him. He was an important part of our lives. Then one year, tragedy struck. Our dog, in a particularly aggressive mood, decided to play with Jesus and tore his little plaster leg from his body. The family was so upset. We did not know what to do with this broken, mangled Jesus. Should we throw him away? Should we try to repair him? In the end, we decided to leave him as he was, broken and wounded. Somehow he seemed to be Jesus even more that way.”

In the midst of my wounds, I now know what it means to be whole.

Thank you, Denis. :)

World AIDS Day

December 1, 2007

Click here & here for more information.

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“Stop AIDS. Keep the Promise.”