There are No Bad Guys

March 12, 2009

When we take a good look at the “bad guys” who appear in our lives and analyze who they are and what they are thinking, we suddenly realize that they are teachers who have come along at precisely the right moment in our lives. That is what they are: teachers.

They present an obstacle to overcome that teaches us a lesson to be learned, forcing us to stretch ourselves because they stand in the way of the path that leads to our personal heaven.

They are an illusion that appears to be very real.

Bad guys are actors in the play of life, and since we write our own script, where is the problem?

If we wouldΒ  just row our boat and go gently down the stream, we would realize that obstacles appearing on the path are really teachers forcing us to stretch ourselves as we reach higher.

These are just thoughts that lead to happiness. I am convincedΒ  that merely by adjusting our thoughts in life, we can guarantee our own bliss, our own happiness.

jk_dvader

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12 Responses to “There are No Bad Guys”

  1. Bosscat Says:

    you mean the teachers from our school???

    i use to hate my chemistry teacher who is also my discipline mistress. guess what she is now a friend of mine and also we are both from the same church…

    I mean anyone..

    Thanks for sharing your personal experience, Bosscat. πŸ™‚

  2. Trinity Says:

    hm… I wonder if I am a bad guy for my children..hm…

    Ask them, Trinity. πŸ˜‰


  3. Hehe, I was about to say something sensible and meaningful till I got so distracted with the comic at the bottom of the post… took me awhile to spot the punchline too! πŸ˜›

    So far, you’re the only one who has commented on that, Kenny. πŸ˜›

    Btw, have a safe & enjoyable trip to Sabah. πŸ˜‰

  4. Angele Says:

    In the end we are the one deciding whether they are the bad guys or not. It’s our own perception of who those people are… I think πŸ˜›

    You think right, Angele.. ‘coz we’re the ones writing the script. πŸ˜‰

  5. waz Says:

    r u sure u r not Buddhist? πŸ˜›

    Absolutely sure, Waz. πŸ˜€

  6. Kyels Says:

    Thought is one of the powerful tools in life b/c w/it we can transmit positive or negative energy into the universe.

    Off topic; thanks for the Birthday wish dear, appreciated!

    (:

    You’re right, Kyels. πŸ™‚

    The pleasure is mine, my friend.
    May all your birthday wishes come true. πŸ˜€


  7. Hmm… *thinks deeply*

    No need to think so deeply.
    You should go & enjoy your weekend, Lizzy. πŸ˜›

  8. waz Says:

    then, PLEASE join Buddhism!
    We have cookies! lotsa them!!! πŸ˜›

    LOL.. That’s a first.. cookies to tempt me to change religion. πŸ˜›

    I’ve nothing against Buddhism nor any other religions.. I’m happy being a Christian, Waz. πŸ˜‰

  9. Gallivanter Says:

    Bad guys are definitely teachers, just like every other experiences that makes us who we are. πŸ™‚

    You share my exact sentiments, Dan. πŸ˜€

  10. x5 Says:

    rightly said Jem!
    they make the best teachers! they do πŸ™‚

    I know, X5. πŸ˜€

  11. waz Says:

    i know…i’m just pulling your leg! πŸ˜›

    Thanks, Waz. πŸ˜‰

  12. Maya Says:

    great blog! just cant across it this morning!
    love this post..
    all i can say is amen =)

    Welcome, Maya. πŸ™‚

    Thanks for your kind compliments.

    Amen! πŸ˜€


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